It was Mark Twain who said “clothes make the man. Naked
people have little or no influence on society.” While no one can deny the importance
of sartorial choices in making us who we are, it is our environment - literal, social,
cultural, and psychosocial - that decides who we are and what we are going to be.
Owais is seven years old and lives in Karachi – Orangi Town
to be precise. His father works as a junior care taker in a shrine and his
mother is a maid. When I first met him, he looked like a happy go lucky, fairly
smart kid who likes cricket and bananas in no particular order loves going to
school because he gets to hang out with his friends and considers his mother to
be the best person in the world. Sounds like a regular kid? Yes, he does. It is
only when I started to talk to him about his career choices that one realizes
what living in a society like ours has done to him and hundreds of thousands of
other children.
Owais wants to join the army which looked like a decent
career option. A lot of kids would want to do that but when he was asked why he
would like to join the army, he said that he will have a big gun with which he
will be able to intimidate everyone. He also relishes the fact that an army
person is at the top of the food chain and can even beat a police man.
His second career option is to go into the police. Just like
the armed forces, police officials are also powerful people who can beat up
everyone whenever it takes their fancy. Owais’ father was once beaten up by
them for no reason. Owais thinks that if he joins the police force, no one will
be able to harm his family except for the army officials, only they are more
powerful than the policemen.
Owais’s third and least desired career option is to become a
maulvi. When asked why, he said that a maulvi is well respected in the
community, gets sent good food from every house in the neighborhood and most of
all, he gets to beat up all the children he teaches Quran.
Owais has lived with frequent and
continual exposure to the use of guns, knives, drugs, and random violence in his
neighborhood. He has witnessed shootings and beatings many a times in his short
life and thinks only those professions that can offer a modicum of security are
worth pursuing.
Living in a society where it is an
everyday occurrence, Owais thinks violence is a natural state of being. For him beating up random people
including children is a fine way to live and make a living. At this point in
time, he does not even have access to a television at home, nor does he hang
out with adults who indulge in violence, imagine how he, or any other child
like him who thinks violence is cool, will behave when he gets to watch all the
violent material available on television and make life choices after that?
The responsibility of providing our children with a safe and
secure environment falls on all of us, parents, teachers, clergymen, relatives,
government executive, political leaders and actors. Its about time we learn to
get over our petty squabbles for short term personal and political gains and
start thinking about our children?
Originally written for The Express Tribune, this is the unedited version.
1 comment:
Very Dickensian Tazeen, you should start writing fiction.
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